When my son Tim gave me a copy of Jon Acuff’s book Start I thought the subject might have come a bit late for me, but I was wrong! I just finished the book and it’s full of motivating advice for Boomers like my husband and me who are launching Act 3 of our lives.
I also saw application for elders we all know and love. Even people in their 80s and 90s can “punch fear in the face, escape average, and do work that matters” as this author urges. With thanks to Jon Acuff (who also wrote the wildly popular, humorous book Stuff Christians Like) here’s some motivation for us all.
At any age each of us can stop living an average life and start living an awesome one. Acuff says that to get to awesome there are two questions we should ask ourselves: “If I died today, what would I regret not doing?” and “Are those the things I’m doing right now?” Younger people might have feats like running a marathon or going to medical school on the list of things they would regret not doing, but our seniors may list things like, “Call my sister in Idaho and have a nice long chat,” or “Take a walk around the block each day.” The point is to stop thinking about what you wish you were doing and begin doing it—one small step at a time.
Moving from average to awesome takes us through several stages according to Acuff. First we learn about the things that interest us, then we edit down to just what we are most passionate about. The third stage is to master one or more of our passions. Then we begin to see the fruits of our efforts; we begin to harvest. Finally, in the awesome life, one gets to the stage of guiding or mentoring others. But that’s not the time to rest on your laurels. Oh no. Once you get to guiding, then you simply start again!
When I think of the older adults I know and love, I wonder if they fully realize how much they have mastered, and how valuable and helpful it would be for them to enthusiastically share their harvest and guide others. Even if it’s how to make a pie crust or when to plant spring crops, every older person has something to share. When we encourage them to do so, we will watch them change from average to awesome right before our eyes.
Did your mother immigrate to this country as a child? Did your dad serve in World War II? Help them tell their stories to a group of school children and share some living history. Do you know an older woman who might be willing to teach someone how to crochet? The opportunities for “awesomeness” are limitless.
As longevity increases, news reports are replete with stories of people in their 90s and beyond who take their first motorcycle ride, go skydiving, or take a long anticipated vacation. But it doesn’t have to be something so dramatic to move older adults from average to awesome. Listen to what matters most to the elders you love, and help them find a way to move closer to living an awesome life. It’s never too late to start.
Jim Brummett says
Great advice for Boomers!
I know! Glad you are reading the book too. 🙂
Bernice Herrold says
So very true Nancy. As I look back on our life we could have done more and more often. Now with my husband’s stroke-things have changed so very much. Just the little things take planning and time and I’m sure we could had done more awesome things
Time to focus on all you HAVE done, Bernice. You have both created quite a legacy.
This is a wonderful , affirming post, Nancy. Very timely. So many how-to articles and reviews focus on “finish what you start…just get it done.” What a breath of fresh air to start at the beginning…and grab life with strong hands! (Forget the tremors and age spots…our hopes and hands are still strong.) 🙂
Amen to that, Marylin. We’ve still got some “start” in us! 🙂
Betty Van Liere says
Thanks, Nancy. Good thoughts once again.
I have to say I am living an awesome life. God has blessed me and is still blessing me and with His help I’ll do whatever He says to do.
You are an amazing example of living life to the fullest, Betty! Thanks for sharing your inspiration with so many.
Kelly Hall says
Nancy, I love this! Thanks for motivating thoughts and the encouragement to continue to step out on the water one day at time! Also I would love to connect you with my blog. But I’m wondering what email address you would prefer to use. Thanks for being obedient to speak the words the Lord has given you to share.
Thanks, Kelly. I know you do a lot of “water walking!”
Caralie Fusco says
I fully intend to live in the awesome! I’m working at it daily and join you, Nancy, in encouraging Boomers and beyond to share the vast wealth of their lives with the young set, and to continue to try new things, check off that “bucket list”, and experience new joys in living the good life.
Like your expression “living in the awesome!” Thanks!
alice scott-ferguson says
brilliant! so glad you wrote this, Nancy!
Thanks, Alice. You inspire me to go for the gusto!